Ali & Greg's Highlights by NR3 Video Productions

I absolutely loved working with Ali and Greg for their November wedding at The Mission Basilica and Marbella Country Club because not did Ali and go to LMU together but we were also in Alpha Phi together!  I absolutely adore this highlight video that NR3 Video Productions put together so I am so exited to share it....  Enjoy!

Vendor Spotlight: ifoto

I just recently met Brian and Rob from ifoto at the Association of Bridal Consultants Trendsetter Awards this past December.  They are new to the industry and really take the always popular photobooth to the next level!  Not only can guests record a video message for the bride and groom to see after the wedding, but they have capability to email or upload pictures to Facebook instantly!  Like many others, they print double copies, include a scrapbook and fun props.  Not to mention Brian and Rob are such genuine people which always makes working more pleasant!  Please check out their interview below as well as some pictures of the booth!
  • Cat or Dog? We are Dog guys!
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Would neither work =) but if we have to choose it would be good ol' Harry
  • Mac or PC? Ideally Mac, but PC bound right now
  • Sweet or Salty? Sweet
  • Beer or Wine? Beer and Wine
  • Mountains or Beach? Mountains
  • Neat or Messy? Neat
  • What is the last book you read? Brian – “The Shack”, William Young / Rob – “Mans Search for Meaning”, Viktor Frankl
  • Most embarrassing moment?  Too many to share =P
  • Favorite sports team? LA Lakers and our Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim, Orange County
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Hangover II
  • Who would play you in a movie? Brian – Chris O’Donnell / Rob – Paul Giamatti (loved Sideways) LOL
  • What is your favorite drink? Brian- Single malt Whiskey / Rob – A Good Cabernet
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? Beer, Costco Chicken and condiments
  • Where is your favorite place to eat? Yoshi’s & Flemings
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Brian – Housewives of OC / Rob - Wipeout
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own? No comment =)
  • Where did you grow up? Brian – Yorba Linda / Rob Sacramento & Anaheim
  • Where have you gone to school? Brian- Troy HS, CSUF / Rob Loara HS, Azusa Pacific Univ.
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Hire a photo booth (haha)…Actually, Remember it is the Brides Day & consider the guests.
  • What is your best marriage advice? Never be to proud to say you’re sorry or you’re wrong
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? Professionally – Having the Mother of the Bride thank us for being a hi-light to the wedding.
  • Anything else we should know? We are all about creating a fun / interactive / and complete customer experience for all our Customers – The Host – The Guests – and the Planner! We are really trying to show everyone that our enthusiasm is infectious!
          

Wedding Trends of 2011

I cannot believe 2011 is over and 2012 is here!! It was such an amazing year and I was so lucky to work with so many wonderful people. Now that we are on 2012, let's look back some of the trends from 2011!

The "It" Hors D'oeuvres

  • Bite-size fish tacos
  • Mini gourmet mac-and-cheese
  • Fries in cones
Most Popular Outdoor Venues

Rooftops
Feather Love Photography
Fields and Meadows
Huey Bui Photography
Fun Wedding Cake Colors
  • Pink
  • Orange
  • Purple
  • Blue
Flower of the Year

The Peony
Newest Photo Op

Instead of a conventional photo booth, have a whimsical backdrop for guests to get in front of!
5 Candy-Station Alternatives
1. Fried-to-order doughnuts
2. Shots of infused vodka or tequila
3. Ice creams and sorbets
4. Scotches (single malts and blended)
5. Crisps- blueberry, peach, rhubarb, strawberry
Comeback of the year
The grooms cake! This is such a great surprise for your man to get something special just for him. It's all about his interests like his favorite car, a fishing hole, or a golf course.
Delicious Catering Trend
Food trucks. These have become popular not only on the streets but also in the wedding world. They can vary from Korean BBQ to Indian curries, to burgers! You can park it outside after the wedding offering a late-night snack.
After looking at the different trends from 2011 I cannot wait to see what 2012 rings in!

Vendor Spotlight: Flawless Faces Inc.

Can I just say I love love love Carina Lindgren and her Flawless Faces team?  They are honestly everything you could ever want in a hair and make up team.  In addition to doing "Flawless" wedding hair and make up, Carina has a studio where she can do facials and other treatments since she is a licensed esthetician.  Check out their website for a full list of services they offer.  Not to mention, Carina and two of her girls have done my hair and make up twice and I honestly have never felt so confident....cheesy I know.  But seriously, please check them out!

  • Cat or Dog? Cat
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Twilight
  • Mac or PC? Mac
  • Sweet or Salty? Salty
  • Beer or Wine? Wine
  • Mountains or Beach? Beach
  • Neat or Messy? Neat
  • What is the last book you read? The Secret
  • Most embarrassing moment? Any moment when you’re arguing with someone and realize you’re wrong
  • Favorite sports team? Not into sports teams, I like watching Equestrian
  • What was the last movie you went to see? It’s been a while, Alice in Wonderland with Johnny Depp
  • What is your favorite drink? Hazelnut coffee, ½ hot chocolate
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? Spinach, Kale, Banana, water, white wine, hemp seeds
  • What is your favorite place to eat? Anywhere Italian!
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? I would go on a make-over show and do makeovers on people
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own?  I own probably 46 pairs of shoes
  • Where did you grow up? Thousand Oaks
  • Where have you gone to school? Thousand Oaks High, Moorpark College, Orange Coast College, Empire Makeup Academy, Bellflower Adult Night school (Esthetician's license), & International Dermal Institute, Orange, CA and Santa Rosa, CA
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? hire a wedding planner!  There are so many details that you are not aware of when starting to plan, and brides get super overwhelmed and don't enjoy the process as the wedding gets closer.
  • What is your best marriage advice? Don't settle.  Marry the person you cannot live without and who is a positive influence in your life.
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? My favorite wedding moments is always the Father/Daughter dance.  I always cry.  OR when the groom sees his bride walking down the aisle.

12 Clever Ways to Cut Costs!

  No matter what your budget is for your wedding, there are always ways to lower how much you spend on your big day. This article from Bridal Guide gives some clear cut ways to save some money for other things like your honeymoon!

1. The Guest List
Keeping your guest list trim is so important. But if you;re worried that you;ll offend people by not inviting them, stop now. Of course you wouldn't ;eave out your nearest and dearest family and friends , so just think of all those people who would probably be flattered to be invited but not bothered if they aren't. Your best bet is to make some rules. That is, first cousins, but not second, Spouses and live-in or serious partners, but not dates. Your boss, but not your whole office. These are some great ways to make sure your wedding stays a good size.

2. The Dessert Table
Unless you're having a dessert reception, don't go overboard on sweets. Wedding cake is so spectacular that offering a dessert buffet, a crepes suzette station and mini ice cream cones is just excessive.

3. The Flowers
The first time you gazed upon your reception site you saw veritable fields of flowers, right? It's no surprise though that piles and piles of blooms can ratchet up your costs quickly. You don't need to fill every corner of your venue with flowers for your wedding to be pretty. Work with your florist to use the freshest, most in-season blooms to their advantage, then fill the rest with budget-friendly candles or greenery. The look will still be beautiful! If you adore flowers, check out botanical gardens in your area and you'll have a bounteous backdrop of blooms at your disposal.

Troy Grover Photography

4. Cocktail Hour
Don't overload guests with everything from sushi bars to hors d'oeuvres to pasta and carving stations. Keep it short and sweet. This ensures that you'll need less food. Hand pass hors d'ouvres instead of having stations. Stick with just enough food to keep guests from getting too tipsy too early.
Troy Grover Photography
5. The Drinks
Feel free to skip the champagne toast and use whatever wint you have on the table. Create a bar you can afford, whether that means offering only beer, wine, water and soft drinks; a signature cocktail and wine with dinner; or less expensive liquors for mixed drinks. Keep your drinks simple.
6. The 5- Course Meal
I know you're worried about guests going home hungry. This concern has led many couples to go down the path of offering too much-up to seven courses-end up paying too much for it. Eliminate one course and just serve an appetizer and entree. Or instead of offering chicken, steak, or salmon entrees, assemble a plate that combines a few grilled shrimp, and medallions of beef, and an array of vegetables. You can save up to 40% or more!
Troy Grover Photogaphy
7. The Cake
A five-tier tower covered with sugar-paste flowers, butterflies and bows? The more elaborate the design, the higher the cost. Consider serving a smaller tiered display cake ad supplementing with a sheet cake that is brought out after the official cake cutting. Or do less-pricey cupcakes in your wedding colors.
Final Touch Bakery

8. The Invitations
Engraved and letterpress invitations are costly. Choosing an unusual color, paper or design may also raise your costs. If you're a DIY-er, design and make your own invitations by hand or on a high quality computer. Or find an amazing invitation designer like Jen Simpson to get inexpensive but beautiful invitations!
Jen Simpson Design

9. Transportation
White limos cost more than black or silver ones, so cross white ones off your list. If you do hire a limousins, don't have the car that took you to the ceremony wait for you all day. Book another to come for you later.
10. The Venue
You've found out the price per person at your chosen venue and it is just too high. You can always negotiate. But some brides are shy or they think that is tacky. But in a touch economic situation, vendors expect it. Be honest about your budget and see what they can do to help. Even if you don't get a price reduction, you may get some extras thrown in, And, if you're flexible with days of the week like a Friday or Sunday, times of days or seasons, you can get a much better deal. Remember: Vendors want your business as much as you want a nice wedding.
11. Rehearsal Dinner
Your rehearsal dinner doesn't have to be a mini wedding and be at an expensive restaurant. If you can have it in the home of someone willing to host. Sometimes people will do this as a gift! Do something casual, like a barbecue or picnic. As your wedding caterer if he or she is willing to cater in a private ome for a lower fee as part of your package.
12. The Impressions
It isn't your job to dazzle your friends. Just remember to take care of them. Be sure they have little amenities in their rooms and that older guests don't have far to walk. Take care not to have an uncomfortable time gap between ceremony and reception. A sweet and inexpensive gift you can give is milk and cookies at the end of the night because it always makes people feel loved!

Vendor Spotlight: Luminaire Images

I'm so excited to highlight my friends Molly and Matt from Luminaire Images!  They are such a fun husband and wife team and make their clients feel so comfortable in front of the camera! See their interview below to get to know them a little bit better and be sure to check out their website!
  • Cat or Dog? Both! I have had the pleasure of owning both cats AND dogs! Currently I get my “pet fix” via my pet rabbit Butters, and by volunteering as a photographer once a month at the OC Humane Society, which gives the shelter pets more exposure and good publicity photos.
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Harry Potter. Who doesn’t love that Luna Lovegood?! I just photographed a Harry Potter-themed holiday party this past weekend too. That was totally fun, I wore a Hogwarts sweater, scarf, & tie and everything!
  • Mac or PC? Mac all the way, baby.
  • Sweet or Salty? Both, but I think my “sweet tooth” is bigger than my “salty tooth”!
  • Beer or Wine? I enjoy both. Beer in the summer, and wine any ol’ time.
  • Mountains or Beach? What a question to ask someone who lives five minutes from the Pacific Ocean!
  • Neat or Messy? Neat. Unless it’s my desk. For the life of me, I cannot seem to keep my desk tidy for more than ten minutes.
  • What is the last book you read? The Graveyard Book by Neil Gaiman. It’s cute in the same way early Tim Burton movies are “cute.”
  • Most embarrassing moment? I have to confess that I am a little embarrassed that I just admitted to recently reading a Young Adult novel. Even if it was by Neil Gaiman.
  • Favorite sports team? The only sports I typically watch are international soccer tournaments. I love watching Brazil play for their technique, and African nations for their amazing speed. I also cheer the home team (U.S.), of course!
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Hugo. It had a lot of references to film history which I really enjoyed. I’m a total cinephile.
  • Who would play you in a movie? I have been told that there is a resemblance between Rachel McAdams (Morning Glory) and myself, but if resemblance wasn’t relevant, then I have no idea. I’ve never thought about that!
  • What is your favorite drink? My favorite “adult beverage” right now is vanilla vodka with ginger ale. So delicious. You have to try it. I also like tea--I have a cuppa every morning.
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? Fixin’s for food...what else!
  • What’s your favorite place to eat? I loooooove sushi. My favorite local sushi joint right now is Matsu, on Beach Blvd & Talbert in Huntington Beach. Best sushi of all time that I have EVER eaten was at Morimoto Restaurant in Napa, CA.
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? I am not much of a fan of reality TV or game shows, but I think it would be awesome to participate in an episode of “Globe Trekker” or something like that. I love traveling, destination weddings are among some of our favorite events to photograph.
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own? I think I only own maybe fifteen pairs or so, which I don’t think is THAT many. My husband Matt, who only owns like...four pairs of shoes, gives me such grief for it! I have a penchant for sneakers and comfy slip-ons.
  • Where did you grow up? All over Southern California, but mostly the Huntington Beach area.
  • Where have you gone to school? I attended Chapman University, where I studied filmmaking. Much of what I learned in that major I have since applied to photography as well, such as production development and execution, and image composition.
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? One wedding I photographed this past year was that of a bride who believed she was past “marrying age” and would never find anyone, and a groom who uses crutches due to a severe genetic arthritis disability and believed he’d never find anyone either. I think nothing short of “magic” can describe their connection and how in love they are. We arranged for a “First Look” (when they are “revealed” to each other before the ceremony on the wedding day), and the reactions in the photos really sum up their beautiful, inspiring relationship.
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? I highly recommend making a list that prioritizes everything involved in your wedding planning, and then hiring professionals in the order of that list. So, if the top three most important aspects of your wedding to you are, for example, your venue, your planner, and your photographer, then secure those three things first. Using this method, if your budget starts to really pinch by the time you reach the bottom of the list, it doesn’t matter so much because everything at the bottom was never very important to you anyway.
  • What is your best marriage advice? I am a fan of the Three C’s: Crystal Clear Communication! Tell your partner how you feel when you’re angry, sad, affectionate, etc. Do NOT wait, and do NOT leave your partner guessing, because if he or she happens to guess wrong then you’ll have an even bigger problem on your hands!
  • Anything else we should know? Yes! Now through January 30th, we’re happy to offer anyone looking for a wedding photography services a 10% rate reduction if they mention that they found us through this interview! You can e-mail us to tell us about your big day and any inspirations you have for your photography.

In Honor of Adam Kholgy and Stephanie Peterson

It was so great to finally work at the beautiful Rancho Las Lomas. I was also lucky enough to work with some of my favorite vendors like photographer Scott Nelson and the always amazing caterers, 24 Carrots. Enjoy some of my favorite pictures from the special day below!


The Team: {Coordinator: Simply Sweet Weddings} - {Location: Rancho Las Lomas} - {Photography: Scott Nelson} - {Florist: The Twisted Fig Fine Florals} - {Caterer: 24 Carrots} - {Ceremony Music: Denny White} - {DJ: Peter Gutierrez} - {Bakery: Great Dane Bakery} - {Makeup: Makeup by Berit}

How to Welcome the Out of Towners

At most weddings there are relatives and friends who travel from around the country and sometimes the world to see their loved ones get married. I think it is so important to make them feel welcome and a little extra special for making the effort to come out and see you get married! Here's some tips from The Bridal Guide on how to give your guests from far away a warm welcome to your wedding.

MG Events via All Things Lovely

Sometimes out-of-town guests make matters tricky because there are rooms to block, transportation to book, directions to give, and gift bags to stuff. But as the host you have to make sure things go flawlessly and they enjoy themselves!

Start Early
I cannot stress this enough! Procrastination is the worst possibly thing for a wedding. Of course you have to send save-the-date cards. You can be super creative with these and its best to make them a little special because it will make guests excited for your big day! These cards is the best way to let guest know they'll need to plan ahead. It's most considerate to send these out six to eight months before the big day. Keep the information you provide simple. Include your names, the wedding date and place, and a wedding website URL, if you have one, and hotel information.

Martha Stewart Weddings

Block Rooms Strategically
When choosing a hotel to recommend to guests, always keep in mind proximity, price and special features. A location near both the ceremony and reception will make it easier for guests to get around. It should be affordable, clean, and nicely decorated, and it should offer amenities like a restaurant, and a bar and airport shuttle service. You might even want to give options and recommend different locations at different price points.
Guests will appreciate it if you block rooms at a discounted rate. Contracts for a block vary from hotel to hotel so it's important that you go over all the details.
Give Guidance
Guests will be on their own to book airfare and other transportation. But do consider working with a travel agent to find good deals and packages for them. You might be charged a fee of about $15 to $30 per guest for coordinating out-of-towners' flights. Even though guests should manage their own transportation from the airport to the hotel, provide them with the name and phone number of a taxi service and any details about hotel-provided transportation. Also, you'll want to give guests some ideas of what to do, whether its sights to see or restaurants to eat at. Post this information on your website!
Consider a Shuttle
If you have room in your budget, hire a bus to shuttle guests from the hotel to the wedding and back. It provides a designated driver-plus, party buses can be fun. Have flip-flops for tired feet, bottled water, mints and aspirin on the bus. guest will seriously appreciate how thoughtful you are.
Don't Overdo It
It's customary to invite everyone coming from far away to the rehearsal dinner-and sometimes even to a next-day brunch- if financially feasible. If not, suggest guests to meet at a nearby hot spot for cocktails or take a tour of the town. Take good care of your guests but don't fee; guilty if you can't afford to wine and dine them all weekend long.
Gift Giving
Guests will appreciate a little basket, like the one above, of treats to help them feel welcome! Be creative and fun with it. Here are some ideas and suggestions.
Comfort and Care
Bottled water, fruit, and other convenient snaks should satisfy their just-arrived cravings; throw in some bubble bath and soft slippers too!
City-Centric
Marrying in a big city? Provide bus or rail tokens, a map, a guidebook and some locally made treats!
Beachy Keen
For a beach wedding, fill a sand pail with flip-flops, sunscreen and a gift card for ice cream on the boardwalk.
Morning Glory
A bagel, juice, pain reliever and the newspaper will make the morning-after enjoyable.

Vendor Spotlight: Jen Simpson Design

Your invitations are one of the first things guests will see of your wedding! So you want them to look the best you can. Jen Simpson and her husband Luke of Jen Simpson Design create the most beautiful invites ever! Luke is the printer and maker of the invitations while she designs them and takes care of the customer contracts. Their invitations are so unique and every single one is special.

  • Cat or Dog?  Cat
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Harry Potter
  • Mac or PC? Mac
  • Sweet or Salty? Salty
  • Beer or Wine? Beer
  • Mountains or Beach? Beach
  • Neat or Messy? Messy
  • What is the last book you read? Ummm…..haha we havn’t read a book in forever!
  • Most embarrassing moment? We have had a few… :)
  • Favorite sports team? Ohio State
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Harry Potter
  • Who would play you in a movie?  Jen: Anna Torv- the girl from fringe Luke: Tom Cruise from the 90’s
  • What is your favorite drink? JEN: Vodka Cranberry LUKE: Dirty Martini
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? Leftovers
  • What is your favorite place to eat? Sonny’s Italian Restaurant
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Amazing Race
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own?  Around 15
  • Where did you grow up? Ohio
  • Where have you gone to school? Bowling Green State University
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? JEN: Keep calm and carry on :) LUKE: Use a lot of paper decorations :)
  • What is your best marriage advice? JEN: Give and compromise LUKE: Talk with your spouse enough that you can anticipate their wants and needs.
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? JEN: when we hand over invitations to a bride and get to see their faces glow with excitement! LUKE: At our wedding when we entered the reception to the Simpson’s theme song!
  • Anything else we should know? We have a cat named Rolland who is basically our kid. We love him dearly, and he is very spoiled!  


15 Ways to Show Mom Some Love

It's every mom's dream to see their son or daughter marry their soul mate. Generally, mothers play a big role in the wedding planning and they out their heart and soul into the special occasion. Here are some ways to say thank you to the woman who dedicated her life to you.

Jim Kennedy Photography

1. Have her join you and Dad for your walk down the aisle.
2. Present her with a photo album of snapshots of the two of you-with a placeholder for a wedding-day picture.
3. Have a piece of lace from her wedding sewn into your gown.
4. Hit her up for "something borrowed," like a piece of her jewelry.
5. Display her wedding portrait on the escort-card table (place it with photos of other family brides).
6. Ask her to light a candle or to give a reading at the ceremony.
7. Have breakfast with her on the big day. You'll sneak in a few moments of calm before the craziness begins.
8. Treat her to a pre-wedding hair-and-makeup session with you and your girls.
9. Order er a monogrammed handkerchief especially for the wedding (She's going to need it!).
10. Tuck her fave bloom into your bouquet; give it to her when you reach the altar.
11. Have your guy make a toast in her honor.
12. Spend your wedding eve watching rom-coms with her at her house.
13. Mail her a letter telling her how much you appreciate her; time it to arrive while you're on your honeymoon.
14. Having a destination bash? Surprise her with a massage at the spa or with a hotel upgrade to a luxe suite.
15. Start a new tradition; the mother daughter dance.

Easy RSVP Tracking

There is nothing more frustrating than when a guest sends back a RSVP card without their name on it! And believe me this happens. Here is a great idea to ensure you know who is sending and RSVP even when they forget to write their name and all you need is a blacklight ink and pen.

 What you do is write your guest's initials or name on the RSVP card in blacklight pen o when a un-named card comes back to you, you just whip out your blacklight pen and identify! And you can give them a hard time for forgetting :)

And these pens are super inexpensive! Go here to buy this handy tool.

How to Tie a Bow Tie

Most often, Bow Ties will come pre-tied from the tux shop. However, if you want to take your look to the next step, we dare you to go for the real thing! Of course, a tutorial on the process of bow-tying may be needed...and looking at these instructions, it looks like you may need a bit of practice! Take a look at the following steps and you'll be well on your way!

www.lenoeupapillion.com

In Honor of Kelly Browne & Matt Roberts

I had such a great time working with Kelly and Matt!  My friend Constance, another fellow planner (www.constancecurtis.com) is friends with Matt and referred them to me because I am on the Hilton's preferred list.  I was so glad she connected us because both Kelly and Matt along with there bridal party and family were just as nice as can be!  Then throw in Sarah and Derek from Frenzel Photographers and KC Campbell from VOC DJs and you've got a party!  I hope you enjoy some of the gorgeous pictures Sarah and Derek captured below....I cannot wait to work with them again!


The Team: {Coordinator: Simply Sweet Weddings} - {Location- Waterfront Hilton} - {Photography: Frenzel Photography} - {Florist: Commerce Flowers} - {Videography: Keepsake Videographer} - {Entertainment: VOX DJs}  - {Bakery: Rossmoor Pastries} - {Photobooth: Fab Photo}  - {Beauty: Bella Blush}

How to Create a Signature Cocktail

Signature cocktails are a growing trend in the wedding industry, and a fun way to personalize your wedding! Cocktail hour is the first chance your guests have to mix and mingle while you’re our having fun with your wedding photos; and nothing is better than not having to wait in line at the bar! Also, it is a bonus for the budget-conscious: You can save on the drink tab by offering wine, beer, champagne, and just the signature cocktail, rather than a full bar.

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When designing your signature drink, here are some factors to consider:
  •       What are your favorite liquors and non-alcoholic ingredients in mixed drinks?
  •        Are there any liquor types and/or ingredients that you absolutely do not want?
  •        What types of cocktails do you two enjoy drinking together?
  •     Would you like the drink to match or complement your color scheme? 
  •     Does your wedding have an overall theme (Hollywood Glamour, Country Simple, etc.)
  •     Consider giving your family history (Origin, Culture, etc.) a role.
  •     Consider the culture of your hometown. (Perhaps your hometown is known for a specific fruit or vegetable).
  •     Peruse restaurant menus or current food magazines for flavor trends.
  •     Let a destination be your inspiration (Location, Honeymoon, where you met, etc.)

When it comes to deciding on the name of your drink, oftentimes, it could be a combination of the couples’ names or something that relates to an interesting story about the couple (how they met, where they met, etc.).
If interested, you can even contact Wedding Cocktail Design.com. Their mixologists will assist you in formulating the perfect signature drink! Their packages include everything from Initial consultation to go over ideas, all the way to the creation of a non-alcoholic version for those guests who do not drink.

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If you chose to formulate your own drink, remember, before you dive into making improvisational drinks for your guests, purchase a variety of flavors you think will go together and start mixing and testing. Eventually, you will be able to find the perfect combination of ingredients and concoct a palatably pleasing drink for you and the rest of the guests. 

Vendor Spotlight: Ryan Weeger Photography

Ryan Weeger is such a talented photographer! He's young and so much fun. His creativity is unbelievable and he has so much passion for what he does.  Not to mention we went to high school together and were in the same Biology class!  We were both the dorky kids....but I must say, I think we have both blossomed quite well, haha :) Oh, and he skateboarded to the most recent time we just had coffee...that's pretty rad in my book!  Get a little glimpse into his fun personality, and enjoy some eye candy of his fabulous work.

·     Cat or Dog? I suppose I’m a bit of both, although we don’t have any pets we definitely have some food mooching kitties in our neighborhood. They guard our place when we’re out :)
·     Twilight or Harry Potter? Gotta say neither on this one. I’m definitely into the drama/comedy type movies, I like real like stuff!
·     Mac or PC? Most definitely Mac based, that warm glow of the apple on my macbook lid just keeps me coming back.
·     Sweet or Salty? Both! Have you even tried those sweet and salty granola bars? So good. I am all about mixing it up, food included.
·     Beer or Wine?  I am definitely into my beers, but no snobbiness from me, I’m an equal opportunity beer lover. My favorites drafts will always be craft IPA’s, I love the hoppy stuff. And wine? Sarah and I were married at a winery in Temecula and honeymooned in Sonoma, so we are definitely into wine as well.
·     Mountains or Beach? I’m definitely a mountains/cold weather guy. I do love the beach as well but there is nothing like crisp cold air and the solitude the mountains bring.
·     Neat or Messy? Clean cut and pretty darn neat. I like my stuff in order, no surprises!
·     What is the last book you read? The Internet is a Playground by David Thorne. If you are into ultra dry and pretty crass humor, you truly can’t go wrong or stop laughing with this stuff.
·     Most embarrassing moment? These happen a lot; I’m always pushing the limits to see what I can get away with, whether it be photographing a wedding or racing my bike. I am pretty competitive and the one embarrassing thing that stands out to me is quitting a bike race. It was really hot, and tough, and I gave in. It won’t happen again I promise that much.
·     Favorite sports team? I grew up in Huntington Beach and still live here. My favorite sports teams are definitely the Angels and the Chargers. I can’t wait till football season starts up again!
·     What was the last movie you went to see? I saw Crazy, Stupid, Love with my wife recently, it was AWESOME. 
·     Who would play you in a movie? Tough one, but I’d have to go with Matt Damon. Mostly for the fact that I love every movie he plays a role in.  
·     What is your favorite drink?  Definitely an Ice Cold Pliny the Elder Double IPA. I know it’s kind of a weird name for a beer, but don’t knock it till you’ve tried it.
·     What is in your refrigerator right now? A bunch of good beers, lots of fruit, veggies galore, sandwich ingredients and of course some eggs and bacon. We love cooking from home so we are usually pretty well stocked.
·     What is your favorite place to eat? I am definitely a huge fan of Beachwood BBQ in Seal Beach. For some local good stuff Sarah and I frequent the Secret Spot in Huntington Beach.
·     What TV reality show or game show would you go on? I am not a big reality show guy, but I would definitely accept an invite to the Shark Tank, I have some good ideas ;) I leave the game shows to my wife Sarah, she was on Wipeout and made it into the top 6!
·     How many pairs of shoes do you own? I keep it pretty simple, Flip Flops mostly when I’m not in my working weddings in my dress kicks.
·     Where did you grow up? Huntington Beach born and raised.
·     Where have you gone to school? I went to High School at Marina in Huntington Beach. I spent 3 years at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo and 1 year taking photo classes at Orange Coast College.
·     What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Develop a relationship or connection with each of your wedding day vendors. It is such an intimate and special day in your lives and you want to be able to connect and get along with everyone involved with your wedding day, whether its your florist or photographer. Getting to know each vendor creates a great relationship from the beginning.
·     What is your best marriage advice? Stay true to yourself and put your spouse first. And don’t neglect those awesome date nights and spur of the moment trips and fun things you did before you were married! Now you can do that stuff all the time :)
·     One of your favorite wedding moments? I love the moment when either the bride or groom show their emotion, and when they can’t hold it back and get misty or shed some tears of happiness. Thats the best.
·     Anything else we should know? What I really love the most about photographing weddings is the connection with the couples I work with, and the relationship we develop before the wedding through their special day and afterwards. I live for the moment when a couple gets their images and is moved and emotions flow. That is when I am humbled and all the hard work has paid off, it truly is the best feeling.

  

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Vendor Spotlight: Bethany Commemory Fine Art

This is a very unique kind of wedding vendor post and I am so excited to introduce something so special to everyone! Bethany is an incredible artist who creates timeless pieces to commemorate a very special part of your wedding- the dress! She works hard to create unique pieces that are personal to you and your personality and style through a collage of mixed-media on canvas. It is evident through her paintings that she is so passionate about capturing the most special memories.  Check out her interview as well as some of her work below!

Also, don't forget to stop by her Facebook page and website!
                                                                                                                                                              Cat or Dog? Dogs: Hendrix and Jagger 
                                                                                                                                                      Twilight or Harry Potter? Twilight


Mac or PC? Both

Sweet or Salty? Both, one bite after the other ;-)

Beer or Wine? Beer

Mountains or Beach? Mountains until I can get back in my bikini

Neat or Messy? Neat

What is the last book you read? The Help 

Most embarrassing moment? The latest one - Not knowing who the owners of a prestigious bridal salon were at a recent event they hosted and asked them, "Do you work here?"

Favorite sports team? The New York Giants

What was the last movie you went to see? Crazy Stupid Love

Who would play you in a movie? Charlize Theron 

What is your favorite drink? Cucumber water

What is in your refrigerator right now? Greek yogurt and cherries

What is your favorite place to eat? Sushi, can't narrow it down to one

What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Big Brother

How many pairs of shoes do you own? 50+

Where did you grow up? Montville, NJ

Where have you gone to school? The University of Arizona
  
What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Do what is important to you and your fiancé. Give it personal touches special to the both of you. Don't worry so much about traditions - make your own.

What is your best marriage advice? Treat your husband today as if he were gone forever tomorrow.

One of your favorite wedding moments? Seeing my husband for the first time before the ceremony. It was the most calming and happy moment.

Anything else we should know? Some tips for working with me, it's easier than one might think. A bride, groom, mom, future mother-in-law, maid-of-honor/wedding party (my paintings make a great gift) just need to provide the following items to make the painting as special as possible -
- Photos of the dress
- Wedding/favorite colors
- Names and wedding date
- Important/Personal elements or symbolism to the bride and groom like where they met, got engaged, wedding location, vows, phrases, music lyrics, favorite flowers, favorite place etc.




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Real Advice From a Real Bride: YogaBabes

I love this segment we do every so often!  My former brides pass on advice now that they have been through it all!  A bride very near and dear to me, Jessica, shared some of her advice with me to post and I think it is so awesome.  She was working on becoming a yoga instructor during the planning process and she has passed on some fabulous poses and advice....although I don't think it's possible to look as good as she does in the pictures...gosh darn her!  Anyways, enjoy!

"In one month and one day I will have been married for one year! With our anniversary fast approaching, I have recently found myself reflecting back not only on the magical day itself but also those hectic last few weeks leading up to our wedding. The work it takes to make your wedding so special and flawless is, as all of you brides-to-be already know, tremendous. I was blessed to have found Holly early on in my planning process, so I had plenty of help along the way. Yet even with all the help in the world, planning a wedding can still at times a very arduous and emotionally draining process – am I right ladies?


Holly has asked me if I have any advice for her beautiful brides and I do. My biggest piece of advice is to make sure you take care of yourself. It is easy to forget about ‘you’ while busy taking care of day-to-day errands, taking care of the wedding contracts, and taking care of addressing all the save-the-dates (because let’s be real, your husband’s handwriting just won’t do). Do make a conscious effort to take a break from all things wedding at least once a day and do something just for yourself. This doesn't mean take a break from wedding stuff to work on other 'work' or chip away at your non-wedding to-do list. Taking a break really means taking a break! It can be journaling, knitting, reading, running, surfing, baking… anything that brings you happiness.

While I was wedding planning, I really relied on yoga as my 'break'. I found yoga to be cathartic, calming, grounding, and it left me feeling more positive. Participating in exercise of any kind is a fabulous way of effectively managing stress since exercise produces endorphins (your happy hormones). Interestingly enough, yoga made such an impact on my life, that shortly after my wedding I became a yoga teacher!

I have created a Simply Sweet and Stress-free series of asanas (poses) that you can try next time you feel like taking a break from wedding planning! I hope you enjoy the poses and my advice and they bring some peace to your very busy life. Never forget that all of your hard pre-wedding work will be worth it come your big day."
Simply Sweet and Stress-free Yoga
1.    Child’ Pose –. Bring your knees out wide, big toes to touch and sit on your heels. Lay your torso forward between your thighs. Extend arms out. Stay as long as comfortable.
2.    Puppy Pose- come onto all fours, so that your shoulders are above your wrists and your hips are above your knees. Walk your hands forward a few inches, engage your arms and keep them where they are as you gently pull your hips back and up. Maintain this pose for 15-30 seconds.
3.    Cat Cow Pose- Again start on all fours. Inhale to Cow, arch your back so your navel reaches for the ground and your tailbone and gaze reach up to the sky. Exhale to Cat, arch your back so that your tailbone points down and so does your gaze. Repeat Cat-Cow 3-5Xs.

4.    Bridge- come onto your back. Bend your knees and bring your heels right up to your bottom. Send your hips up high, tuck your shoulders under and grasp your hands under your torso. Gaze is straight up at the ceiling. Release your hands when ready to release the pose. Hold for 15-30 seconds before your slowly lower.

5.    Standing Forward Fold. Come up to standing and with a flat back slowly fold forward. When fully folded, arms can rest on the thighs, shins, or floor (but never on the knees). Stay in this stretch for 15-30 seconds and rise ever so slowly.

6.    Reclining Bound Angle Pose- Come to your back for our final pose. Bend your knees and let them fall open and bring the soles of your feet to touch. Close your eyes and focus on your breath (not on wedding planning hehe) and enjoy!




For more on how to live like a YogaBabe visit me at www.yogababes.me.

10 Bridesmaid Dress Tips

Brides almost always choose the closest women in their lives to be their bridesmaids. They’re there for you when you need someone most, they make you laugh, and they know you better than you know yourself. So you want them to look just as beautiful as you when they stand beside you at your wedding…..right? So here are some tips from The Knot to picking the best dresses!

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  1.       Track the Trends. What’s hot now? Hemlines with a little pop of sequins for that glam effect.
  2.         Be Flexible. Why not pick the color you want and then let your maids choose their own style?
  3.         Search for Inspiration. Surf the web. Even if you don’t spot your dream dress, you may find other ideas.
  4.         Shop Early. Get your girls together to scope out silhouettes that everyone can agree on.
  5.         Make Black-Tie Optional. Floor length gowns in seersucker or chiffon fabrics feel less formal.
  6.         Ace the Accessories. Cool-toned dresses go with silver; for warm hues, try gold.
  7.         Tap into Old Hollywood. A rhinestone belt, ruffle collar and knee length hem are so Grace Kelly.
  8.         Do Your Homework. Study up on shapes that flatter all figures, like V-necks and A-lines.
  9.         Find the Right Price. Consider cost when selecting a dress.
  10.       Get a Tailor. Find affordable alterations around your area and make sure the dresses fit to a tee to ensure everyone looking their best!

Budget Ideas: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Every couple wants to save money on their wedding. But there are good ways-and bad ways. I’ve seen so many weddings where they think its better to do things on their own and it looks homemade. So if you want to cut some costs, here are some great tips from Brides magazine to how.

Invitations
Good: Printing a single card with both ceremony and reception details
Bad: Texting or emailing the invites
Flowers
Good:
·      Decorating with potted bulbs, herbs, or fresh praoduce instead of just cut stems
·      Buying flowers that are blooming locally (Helllooo no shipping!)
·      Putting your own money into the flowers that will be in the spotlight, like your bouquet and the centerpieces
·      Having each bridesmaid carry a few full-bodied blooms, like hydrangeas or chrysanthemums. This way you don’t have to spend extra money on the little flowers!
·      Flanking the altar with flowering branches like cherry or apple blossoms instead of large cut-flower arrangements
Bad:
·      Skipping centerpieces all together. Bare does NOT look beautiful
·      “Borrowing” flowers from your neighbor’s garden- or anyone’s garden in that matter
·      Using cheap stems that you don’t even like or clash with your color scheme just so you’ll have flowers everywhere
·      Asking each bridesmaid to bring her own bouquet
·      Marking the ceremony location with a bunch of balloons
Food and Drink
Good:
·      Forgoing the champagne toast and having guests clink with whatever they’re already drinking
·      For an informal wedding, serving a pasta buffet
·      Booking a site that lets you supply your own liquor (Buy by the case to save even more!)
Bad:
·      Cutting the toast
·      Doing chips, pretzels, and baby carrots and hoping that people will have shown up already eaten
·      Writing “BYOB” on the invitation
Wedding Cake
Good: Ordering a cake for just two thirds of your guest list. Some will skip dessert or leave before you cut it
Bad: Asking mom to make Jell-O molds- everyone always raved about them when you were growing up
Negotiating
Good: Asking vendors for a discount but expecting to compromise- maybe that means shortening the cocktail hour
Bad: Asking vendors to donate stuff- believe me, if you keep asking for deals, vendors aren’t going to want to give it to you!
Here are some additional tips to saving some extra cash!
  •         Trimming the guest list- If you haven’t socialized with someone in a year or more, cross them off the list. Facebook friends don’t count
  •         Serving wine, beer, and a signature cocktail, not a full bar
  •         Picking a predecorated, fully furnished site. You wont need to spring for rentals and decorative items to make it look photo ready
  •         Having a lunch reception
  •         DIYing your wedding stationary
  •         Scheduling the event during the locales off-season and/or on a quiet day. (i.e. a mountain resort not during the winter)
  •         Eloping! Just kidding.s